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praisemefornow replied to your post: Can someone please tell me if I am overreacting or not?

you’re really not over reacting, you’re exactly on mark with your reaction

thankyou, sometimes i need clarification, because her and previous partners have always said i overreact, when i think my responses are totally reasonable

ishouldprobablychangethis replied to your post: Can someone please tell me if I am overreacting or not?

sounds like she’s trying to make you beak up with her because she’s too chicken shit to do it herself. cut her loose! and find a pretty Barbarella to dance the night away with.

i really really hope thats not her plan, but im terrified it is. she knows i will become self destructive if she leaves me, so maybe shes trying to get me to leave her instead… but then for my birthday she gave me a set of cards with 52 reasons not to leave her… one of them said “i will treat you like a queen”… i dont see that happening. also “i will ALWAYS admit when im wrong”. 

praisemefornow asked: I know this may be creepy ,sorry, but could you tell me your measurements? I'm loosing weight and toning up after exams and would like a goal ? X) xxxo

I’m really not going to give you my measurements for that, sorry.

My body is no more perfect than yours, I can’t let it be held up as some beacon of what attractive must look like. 

praisemefornow asked: about your last post, I agree to an extent but have you ever been over weight? There are clothes I can't wear and things I physically can't do because of my body ,having a better body wouldn't make me completely happy all of a sudden but it would start me on the road towards being happier. xx

no, this is true, i do have thin privilege. 

when i post things like that i mostly have in mind people who are also not “overweight”, as in they are my size/maybe slightly bigger, and yet they still feel that they need to lose weight to be happy. in this case it is purely about what they look like, rather than what their body can do/what they can wear. does that make sense?

if people want to lose weight then i think thats fine, so long as they are doing it for themselves, and not just because thats what society tells them they should do.